You don’t need to go to a psychologist if you feel joy from life: joy in relationships, joy in work, joy in where you live...
Alex Mars
You don’t need to go to a psychologist if you feel the joy of life: the joy of relationships, the joy of work, the joy of where you live, where you go.
He got up in the morning, and on the soul - joy! Calm light joy! No depressing mental health in winter ... no dissatisfaction ... no freezing in conflicting desires and fears ..
Is that possible?
Maybe!
It is possible to be in the warmest, most sincere relationship with your children, with your parents.
It is possible to make decisions in a short time and enjoy it.
It is possible not to hang in your conflicting thoughts for years.
It is possible to live with a loved one and family.
It is possible to live without resentment, in joy and trust.
And if anxiety is in my soul, in other words, this constant hiding dissatisfaction, and this is not the first day ...
Then the direct road to the psychologist. We do not live with toothache, we go to the dentist.
Why are people so not attentive to psychological pain?
Most often because it is not acute. But from this it is not less harmful to humans.
But in practice, I am faced with the fact that many are so accustomed to anxiety, to their dissatisfaction, that they even begin to consider it the norm.
And - they come to a psychologist, if suddenly someone’s pain has become soooo sharp - when either "in the loop" from this pain, or to a psychologist.
When does this occur in women?
In most cases, a trip to a psychologist is connected with betrayal, divorce, or when they realize that they still have to part with their passionate “married man”, that they have been letting their life go into the void for the eighth year, but they can’t part in any way .. .
This pain is falling upon such a wave covering the head ... that there is already no strength to endure, and this cannot be called the norm!
Girls, but if there was a betrayal or even the husband’s departure from the family, or if the eighth year the man does not seek to start a family with the woman ... then the problem did not start at that moment.
The problem is that a woman has long been living with her pulling pain, with bells of dissatisfaction, anxiety ... but there is a habit of not noticing them. There is a habit of calling this the norm. It's a pity!
The life of a modern person is long. To live a long, unhappy life ... - what could be worse?
The worst part is dying. He didn’t live humanly - but it’s time to die already. People who did not have time to become happy die hard. Who were afraid to be happy.
Those who lived without fear to fulfill their desires without stinting to spend their energy on them are not afraid to die. This person was realized every day. Step by step, step by step, he did not betray himself, his dreams.
Who regrets about his childhood? Who did not have a childhood. Who regrets his life? Who did not have the life of which he dreamed.
And if in childhood we can’t always manage our life, then we have crossed the threshold of eighteen years of age and we can take life into our own hands.
Take it! It's never too late to do it!
Not always we immediately get what we want - but we always know:
Are we living on the road to what we want?
Either we huddle, in the sense we are not doing anything, and take only that which somehow by itself sailed to us ... or we mistakenly launched into our lives, but we are not going to sweep away everything!
Get out! Rebuild life!
Friends, even one single day to live, even if only on the way to what we want, what we dream about, is already a great happiness!
This is not scary to die! Because I felt, plunged, because you know what HAPPINESS is!
We all know that we were born for this purpose in order to become happy.
Do you understand?
We all know that happiness is the ultimate goal of existence, our meaning of life.